عَسَى أَن تَکْرَهُواْ شَیْئًا وَهُوَ خَیْرٌ لَّکُمْ وَعَسَى أَن تُحِبُّواْ شَیْئًاوَ هُوَ شَرٌّ لَّکُمْ وَاللّهُ یَعْلَمُ وَأَنتُمْ لاَ تَعْلَمُونَ(216 البقره)
and it may be that you dislike a thing while it is good for you,and it may be that you love a thing,while it is while for you , and Allah knows while you do not know
albaqare,216